Christmas in Rome: A Roman Christmas (Free Italy Travel Advice)

This article originally appeared a previous issue of Dream of Italy:

|image2|When I pictured myself spending Christmas in Rome, many thoughts went
through my head…the crowds at St. Peter’s for
Midnight Mass, the chance to see the many churches with their presepi
(Nativity scenes), and perhaps some of my favorite monuments glimmering
under holiday lights. What I never expected was my first encounter with
the festive Christmas market in <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>Piazza Navona.
As I walked through <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>Campo dei Fiori
towards the piazza on that cold, dark night, I emerged into a colorful
holiday wonderland. It was an incredible sight, with stands covered in
thousands of lights offering Christmas candy and small games and toys
such as ratty-looking stuffed reindeer being sold by even rattier
looking Santas! The scene brought back that almost child-like sense of
wonder that I used to feel around the holidays.

After the death of our mother the previous December, my sister and I
realized that since neither of us had our own family, we would need to
do something completely different for the holidays in 2003. Our first
Roman Christmas was unusually cold and rainy (the Italian press called
it Natale
or “Polar
Christmas”). But we loved it and especially loved it enough
for us (and any friends we could persuade to join us) to spend four of
the next five Christmases here in the Eternal City. Since this year
I’m living here full-time, we will celebrate the holidays in
my very own Roman home.

For Italians, Christmas represents family…and
food.  And, while the shops are full of wonderful gifts, I
don’t feel the emphasis on the commercial aspect of Christmas
that is so prevalent in the United States. The streets and shops of
Rome are crowded on Christmas Eve – but the
shoppers’ arms aren’t full of shopping bags with
the latest clothes or toys, they are loaded down with the foods of the
season – fresh fish as well as sweets like panettone, pandoro
and torrone.

And the decorations don’t go up very early (this includes my
favorite item of the last few years, the “hanging
Santa”)…usually only a week or so before Christmas
because they stay up until the Epiphany on January 6th.

One of the joys of shopping in Italy is the great attention the
shopkeepers pay to each purchase and especially at Christmas. One of my
favorite memories that first Christmas in Rome will remain the ricotta
tart I bought from the pasticceria in the neighborhood. My tart was
wrapped in lovely green paper and tied with a light green ribbon. I
wouldn’t let the lady put it in a bag because I was so proud
of it and I carried it through the streets like I had won a prize.


The traditional Christmas Eve dinner is a grand meal, generally with
seven fish courses. While developing my own traditions, I have had a
great guide to the Roman ways in my friend Raffaella, who is a native
Roman. She says the meal is referred to as di magro (magro means
“thin”) which means that, in the Christian
tradition, you don’t eat meat as a form of respect and penitence and to
purify the body from all the excesses of the year.
The Roman twist on the traditional Christmas Eve meal is the addition
of many fried antipasti like mozzarella and artichokes. According to my
guide, Christmas Eve is a bigger occasion than Christmas Day, with
Roman families eating together at home, before opening some presents
delivered by Santa Claus and attending mass at midnight.


While my sister and I try to eat at least some fish at our traditional
Christmas Eve dinner at a wonderful restaurant in Trastevere called<span
style=”font-style: italic;”> L’Archetto (Via
G. Mamelli, 23; 39-06-5815275; closed Sunday).  I met
Alessandra, the owner of the restaurant, through friends when I first
started coming to Rome and it has long been my place to go for any
special events.  So that first year, not really knowing too
many of the local traditions, we decided that we would start our
holiday celebration there.  Alessandra tells us to trust her
when she says “close your menu”, as she did during
a recent Christmas Eve dinner that was capped off with a slice from a
giant panettone (the traditional cake originated in Milan and served
throughout the holidays; it’s a bit like our fruit cake, only
much better). [Note: Alessandra is not sure if she will be opening the
restaurant this Christmas, so be sure to check with her.]

I love so many things about Italy but occasionally I do run into
something that I just can’t understand.  On
Christmas Eve, this involves the capitone, an ugly eel that is popular
in both Rome and Naples. While I refuse to eat them, I do like looking
at them – and I have the opportunity since my local
fishmonger puts a box of them (still alive) on the sidewalk that

While many people come to Rome at Christmas to go to Midnight Mass at
St. Peter’s in the Vatican (either getting the rare tickets
that allow you inside the basilica or standing outside to watch the
mass on a big screen in the piazza), but several hours in a large crowd
of people is not my idea of a good time so I have never tried it.
Instead, we begin our tradition of
“church-hopping,” around 11:30 p.m.

Our goal is to visit as many churches as we can on Christmas
Eve.  This tradition of dropping in on a number of services
started the first year when decided to go to the Pantheon because we
thought that would be a close second to St.
Peter’s.  That year there was a small crowd
(probably due to the cold both outside and inside the magnificent
structure) so we didn’t stay very long, but decided to walk
back home and on the way, started dropping into the churches we passed.
I think our record for church visits is 11 in one night. But in the
last few years, we have spent more time at two of our favorites, <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>St. Ivo
all’Sapienza and<span
style=”font-style: italic;”> Santa Maria in Trastevere.
St. Ivo is a lovely small church near Piazza Navona and is one of the
masterpieces of <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>Francesco Borromini.
It is not always open, so Christmas Eve is a good time to see
it.  Santa Maria in Trastevere has a large, lively service
that is sometimes aired on Italian television. While I have not been
back to the Pantheon since that first year, we may try it again this
year because I have been told the service now includes Gregorian
chants. It has also become harder to get a seat for the service so I
plan to arrive around 10 p.m. to secure a place.


Christmas itself begins with a lovely peacefulness in the city, except
in my kitchen (this year in my own apartment, in previous years at
rental places) as we begin our dinner preparations.  It is a
quiet day for most Roman families, with a big family lunch; again, the
emphasis this day is more on food than gifts.  Many families
eat turkey or cappone (rooster which was castrated at about four months
old and then fattened). While in the north of Italy, boiled meat with
green sauce made of garlic and parsley is the standard, most families
across Italy probably eat tortellini or cappelletti cooked in broth.


The shopping for food and decorations has always been part of the
adventure.  This year I will be able to put a tree up quite
early, hopefully a couple of weeks before Christmas.  I have
found that one of the best ways to improve my language skills is to
make memorable mistakes…and I have done that many, many
times!  For example, one of my favorites is the year I set out
to buy a Christmas tree, an <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>albero di Natale
but after a few glasses of wine, ended up asking for an <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>albergo di Natale,
which meant I was trying to buy a Christmas hotel!

Like other Romans, I do most of my shopping on the 24th so that
everything is as fresh as possible.  The first year, we
decided we wanted to create a menu that would remind us a bit of
Christmas in the United States, but not exactly replicate it.
We began with lentil soup (which is also eaten for good luck on New
Year’s Eve), followed by a <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>rotolo,
which is a roll of turkey stuffed with any number of things –
our favorite is plums and apples. We also prepared sautéed
spinach and, to satisfy our American appetites, mashed potatoes. In the
great Italian tradition, our dinner lasted more than four hours, and we
enjoyed the fact that nobody was rushing off to watch a football game
or looking for more presents to open.

After dinner, Roman families play games such as <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>tombola,
which is similar to Bingo and <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>sette e mezzo,
a version of Blackjack.  Both are often played for money and
can provide an evening of high competition and laughter.  I
have only played tombola once (I lost the whole night) but
this year have bought my own set and look forward to playing it again.

If we want a bit of exercise and fresh air either before or after the
games, we might take a walk to St. Peter’s after Christmas
dinner to see the Nativity. (We’ll miss the crowds who were
there early in the day for the Pope’s appearance at his
window.) Last year, the Vatican made a fairly dramatic change in the
scene’s traditional composition, setting it in
Joseph’s house, with his near-by carpenters’
workshop and a busy inn, rather than a straw-lined stable.
Because the new design reflects a passage from the book of Matthew
rather than the usual story from Luke, the new scene stirred up quite a
bit of controversy.

Of course, St. Peter’s is not the only church with a
Nativity.  That first Christmas, a friend told me I had to go
into as many churches as possible (“crib crawling”)
because they each have their own distinct Nativity scene.
Many are very elaborate, with shooting stars and music; others are very
simple.  This became my quest in the week before Christmas
that first year, and I wish I had kept count of the number of churches
I entered.   From the start, I noticed that there was
no Baby Jesus in the manger and I couldn’t understand
why.  It took me a lot longer than I should admit to realize
that the manger was empty because he hadn’t arrived yet and
would be placed into the manger on Christmas Eve.

Possibly because this popular symbol of Christmas is rooted in early
Italian history, the Nativity is taken very seriously in Italy and I
imagine each Italian home has at least one. Supposedly St. Francis of
Assisi asked the artist <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>Giovanni Vellita
to create the first Nativity scene in the village of <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>Greccio
in 1224. Raffaella tells me that in her mother’s house today
they still today move the Wise Men a bit closer to the manger every day
and on Christmas Eve, the lights are dimmed and the entire family
follows as the youngest person there has the honor of placing the Baby
Jesus in the manger. She also has told me a story about her uncle in
Naples who was a collected Nativity scenes.  He kept one with
almost life-size (or so it seemed to her as a child) figures in a room
year round, but only opened it for viewing during the

Festa di San Stefano

The day after Christmas<span
style=”font-style: italic;”> La Festa di San Stefano,
marks the announcement of the birth of Jesus and the arrival of the
Three Wise Men. It is a national holiday in Italy and my first year
here it seemed that more things were closed on this day than on
Christmas Day but I have since noticed that the city does seem to
slowly come back to life that day.

There are plenty of things to do on the 26th, including a visit to the <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>Borghese Gallery
(reservations necessary) or another of the larger museums (the Vatican
Museums are closed that day). Another fantastic Roman museum open that
day and worth visiting is the <span
style=”font-style: italic;”>Galleria Doria Pamphili
with its large collection of 17th century masterpieces and important
Renaissance pieces). It is also a day to mingle with the crowds of
families walking around Rome and stopping by the holiday market in
Piazza Navona.

The long holiday season finally winds down after New Year’s
when it culminates on the Epiphany with a visit from Befana. In Rome,
in particular, this is still a very big day, when Befana delivers
presents to the children – candy for the good children and
pieces of “coal” (actually black sugar candy) to
those who have been bad.  The legend of La Befana recounts
that the wise men had stopped at her home asking for directions to the
manger where the Christ child had been born.  La Befana
didn’t know who they were looking for and, being suspicious,
declined to accompany them when the offered to let her join them. After
they left, she reconsidered and decided to join them, but lost her
way.  The story tells how she stopped every child she met and
gave them treats in the possibility that one of them was the baby the
men had described.  Every year she continues her search for
the Christ child she missed.

Fortunately, my search for the best place to spend Christmas is
over.  Rome is my home for the holidays. I think spending
Christmas here has given me back something that I had lost as I grew
up…an understanding that the season is not important so much
for the gifts that are exchanged (and maybe later returned!) but for
the wonderful times (accented by great food) spent with family and

— Frances Kidd

Kidd wrote about the secrets of the Sistine Chapel and tours of the
Roman Ghetto in the May 2008 issue of

Dream of Italy.


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